Why The Bedroom Project Exists

We’re taught how to have sex — but not how to talk about it, want it, or let it evolve over time.

The Bedroom Project was created for the conversations most people never learned how to have: about desire, boundaries, power, curiosity, and repair.

So many singles and couples feel disconnected, bored, or unsure not because something is wrong, but because they were never given tools for navigating intimacy with honesty and intention. This work creates space for those tools — and for intimacy that feels playful, connected, and real.

Whether you’re healing what feels tense or quiet, deepening a relationship that already works, or exploring desire in new ways, this is about slowing down and building intimacy that feels alive in your body and grounded in consent.

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About Meghan

Hi, I’m Meghan Cholette — an intimacy coach and the creator of The Bedroom Project.

I genuinely enjoy my marriage and feel deeply connected to my partner, which made it impossible not to notice how many couples and singles around me were struggling with their sex lives. As I paid closer attention, I realized that for many people it wasn’t just dissatisfaction — it was frustration, loneliness, and sometimes even misery.

Through my own relationship experience, years of reading and research, and my continued education in intimacy and sex coaching, I saw a clear need for a different kind of support — one that felt safe, honest, and free of shame.

That’s why I created The Bedroom Project.

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I believe everyone deserves a satisfying sex life that feels aligned, consensual, and genuinely enjoyable.

In our work together, we’ll move as a team — setting clear goals and taking things one step at a time. I’ll offer practical tools you can actually use in real life to help you reconnect with desire, communicate more openly, and embrace your sexual confidence. Sex doesn’t have to be taboo, awkward, or shame-filled. This is a space where curiosity, honesty, and even those “wild” fantasies are welcome.

This Is For You If…

  • You’re single and curious about your desires — what turns you on, what shuts you down, and how to build relationships that actually feel good

  • You’re in a solid relationship and want more spark, playfulness, or depth in your intimacy (not because anything is broken, but because you want more)

  • You and your partner feel connected, yet crave more closeness, ease, or intention in your sex life

  • You value emotional safety, enthusiastic consent, and honest conversations about desire, boundaries, and fantasies

  • You’re open to slowing down, getting curious, and making thoughtful changes instead of chasing quick fixes or performative intimacy

This Is Not For You If…

  • You’re seeking therapy, diagnosis, or crisis intervention rather than coaching support

  • You want your partner changed without being willing to examine your own patterns, habits, or beliefs

  • You’re looking for quick fixes, magic scripts, or “say this and they’ll want you” answers

  • You’re not open to honest dialogue, reflection, or taking responsibility for your role in intimacy

  • You want pressure, ultimatums, or being pushed past your limits instead of a consent-centered, nervous-system-aware approach

You don’t need to know exactly what you want yet.
You just need to be willing to start a conversation.

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